It’s New Year and like thousands of others you have decided this year will be the year you get in shape. You probably noticed a small burst of motivation after choosing what your diet and training plans would look like. That sense of finally moving in the right direction…it can be pretty exciting.
And it should be! Make no mistake: making intelligent decisions about the quality and quantity of the food that you eat is a huge part of becoming a healthier version of yourself.
There’s just one problem: the actual long-term success rate of diets is dismal. Sometimes people dive into their diets only to give up on them within weeks. What’s worse, studies have shown that only 1 in 5 people are successful at keeping the weight off in the long run.
This statistic tells us something: a lot of people are making mistakes, and that without proper guidance and education, chances are you too may end your fitness journey frustrated.
So without further ado, let’s take a look at the most common reasons for failure so you can push through those barriers and get closer to becoming a happier, healthier you.
1. Poorly Defined Goals
Having a dietary plan in place is a great place to start–as long as you know where you’re going. Now, before we dive into this, let’s get one thing out of the way: ideally, health and wellness is a journey, not a destination. The pursuit of a healthier mind and body is something that never truly ends and should simply become a way of life.
But…embracing that way of life isn’t easy. And expecting someone who’s never had to worry about their diet or training regimen to become a health nut overnight is unrealistic. That very mentality is the foundation for why so many diets fail (but more on that later)
The average first-time dieter is going to be looking at an uphill battle. Yes, they’ll have to combat all of their old habits and temptations. And sure, making a health-oriented lifestyle second nature is a tall order. But if we really want to know what really ruins people’s dieting efforts, we need to take a look at the glaring flaw in most dietary plans: the lack of clearly defined goals.
It may sound obvious, but many people begin fitness journeys with only the vaguest of goals, which sets them up for potential failure, especially in the long-term.
If you ask the average dieter, they might say that they want to lose 1 to 2 stone or ‘look good in a swimsuit. Those are fine goals, except this brings up a few problems. For starters, the first-time dieter typically has no idea what their body will look like after losing 1 to 2 stone! If you want to ensure your success, you need to understand not only where you stand right now in terms of body composition, but what your body composition goals are.
To put things simply: how can you expect to hit a target when you don’t know exactly what you’re aiming for?
That’s where an understanding of your body composition comes in handy.
Once you understand how much Lean Body Mass and Fat Mass you have, you’ll be in a better position to tackle the next important question: which do you want to address first?
Your body will have a unique response to different programs. Whether you decide to focus on fat loss first or developing Lean Body Mass, the key is that you create a goal-oriented plan that can keep you on track.
Additionally, dieting is more than just figuring out what you should be eating. The ideal diet has to be paired with a series of realistic, achievable goals that you can measure. What gets measured gets managed, and vague goals are the bane of any successful training plan. The more well-defined your goal is, the easier this journey will be for you.
Instead of saying you want to ‘get stronger’, say you want to gain 5 pounds of muscle. Instead of wanting to ‘look good in a bikini’, want to lose 10 pounds of fat. Not only does this help as a way to keep you motivated throughout the process, this subtle change in mentality can actually have a massive impact on the overall effectiveness of your training.
You’ll be able to avoid increasing your Fat Mass while adding those extra 5 pounds to your Lean Body Mass. On the flip side, you can avoid losing muscle (which can have some pretty disastrous consequences , even more so as you age). The real power of keeping track of your progress is that you’ll constantly be aware of what’s working, what isn’t, and how you can improve.
So now that you’re tracking your body composition, you’ve clearly defined a goal and you’ve chosen an approach. These are all powerful concepts, but the glue that will hold them together is the use of milestones en route to that goal.
Milestones matter because they make things digestible. They’re the answer to the question of ‘how do I keep myself on track for the next 3 months?’ Losing 1 stone of Fat Mass is going to take quite a bit of work, and there’s no way around it.
When you create a list of milestones, you’ll have built a roadmap for your fitness journey. Once you understand what your goal looks like, each milestone can be used to keep you charging in the right direction. Beyond that, they give you the opportunity to make health and wellness second nature over time.
What do realistic milestones look like, from a body compositional standpoint? These will vary for everyone, but generally speaking, someone who creates a caloric deficit of 500 calories per day (a 3,500 calorie weekly deficit) stands to lose 1 pound of body fat per week, or 4 pounds a month if the diet is “perfect” all month.
It gets tricker to set muscle milestones, because there are so many factors that contribute to effective muscle gain. However, assuming you’re new to muscle-building, one realistic estimate is that you can add about two pounds of muscle per month, with this number decreasing over time as you continue to lift.
If you really want to make being healthy a habit, create a series of milestones and you’ll have more than the undeniable proof that what you’re doing just isn’t working–you’ll be on your way to making health a priority in your life.
2. The Expectation of Perfection
There’s nothing wrong with dreaming big when it comes to diet and exercise. We should all strive to want to be the strongest, healthiest versions of ourselves. However, envisioning something for your future and expecting it virtually overnight is not a recipe for success.
Many times people aspire to some idealized expectation of perfection, and so they set unrealistic goals, like dropping 2 stone in 2 months without a professional help. This is a problem.
By nature, diets tend to be restrictive. In fact, most diets are designed with the intent of planning out each of your meals for you. The idea is that by erasing the need to think about what your next meal will look like, you’re more likely to make the right choice and stick to your diet.
Of course, that works perfectly well on paper. But in the real world, mistakes will be made, and that’s OK. People will get sick. That weekend away for the anniversary is only 5 weeks away. Your birthday is coming up. These are just a few situations that diets aren’t really designed to account for.
Here’s what’ll usually happen. More often than not, you’ll have a person who wants to stick to their diet but ends up missing a meal for some unavoidable reason. The issue here is that they then tend to fall into the trap of saying “well, I already messed up lunch. I’ll just make today a cheat day and start again tomorrow.”
Unfortunately, a cheat day can quickly turn into a cheat week and slowly but surely, people can end up disengaging from their diet altogether. Think of this as the ‘New Year’s Resolution Effect’. Trying to take on too much, too soon is tough enough, but expecting everything to go perfectly according to plan can be a recipe for disaster.
This expectation of perfection that diets push onto dieters is more than just unrealistic. It has the potential to undermine the average person’s fitness journey and, worse, make them think that they’re incapable of dieting properly.
So, how do you avoid this dieting trap? Simple: stop expecting perfection.
To clarify, if you want to have a successful diet, stick to the script as best you can. But the occasional cheat day won’t undo weeks or months of training and dieting. You need to be willing to forgive yourself for any mistakes that you make along the way.
Just remember that moderation is key here. A cheat day once a month is one thing, but a cheat weekend can get out of control quickly. Once that cheat day is over, you need to be ready to tackle tomorrow with the same intensity as before.
3. An Imbalanced Approach
This is arguably the easiest mistake to make when it comes to your health and wellness journey. And the worst part? This issue might seem minor, but it can have a massive impact on your results. So, what is this mysterious issue we keep alluding to? Imbalance.
One of the most common issues that you’ll notice with a person just getting started on their fitness journey (and even seasoned veterans) is a lack of balance between diet and exercise when it comes to their approach.
Some people are guilty of making their diet a priority and neglecting their physical training. Others are guilty of putting all the focus on their physical training without paying too much attention to the quality of their diet. No matter which side of the imbalance an individual is on, that person’s results and progress will suffer.
Without proper training, expecting your body to increase lean body mass and decrease fat mass by itself is wishful thinking, at best. Study after study has shown that the most effective way to help your body build lean mass and lose fat mass is through a regularly implemented strength training regimen AND an optimized diet.
For those of you who think they can just start some type of exercise plan and see results, think again. If you want to hit those milestones that you’ve planned out and actually improve your body composition, you’ll need to have a diet that allows you to improve it.
Staying the Course
Keep in mind that none of this is going to be simple. Even if you’re able to take these lessons to heart and overcome these three common obstacles, you’ll still be in for a wild ride. Dieting, training and the overall journey towards becoming a healthier you will almost certainly be a challenging experience. But if you’re ever in a tough spot, keep in mind the overall theme of these solutions.
The tangible solutions of creating milestones, discarding the expectation of perfection, and having a balanced approach to your diet and training all have one thing in common: They’re built on the understanding that, at the end of the day, you’re a human being
People make mistakes. And change is anything but easy. Accepting how hard this journey is going to be is the first step to actually completing it. The second step? Realizing that you CAN do this if you set yourself up for success and arm yourself with the knowledge to reach your goals.